|Niquar Nikki Baldwin|
This is where marriage becomes extremely personal. If the marriage is becoming unbearable between the spouses the Bible says that we can depart "separate" not "divorce". It's during this separation (if not for adultery) that each party must have the heart of God, to come before Him honestly and sincerely and ask Him "What do YOU want for me to do in this?" His response normally will always be where His heart is; restoration, forgiveness, humility and trust Him to work it out.