Monday, February 9, 2015

Today in our Monday Manna circle we will talk about prayer.  Prayer is our dialogue with God.  It’s not something that is very popular, yetit is needed.  Most Christians will do everything else before they pray.  I can remember when I was going through one of my darkest hours.  My husband had just informed me that he no longer wanted to be married and that he was going to be leaving the home.  In my mind I was confused, hurt, angry, and upset.  Although I was feeling all of these emotions, I knew God was going to give me a peace about it all.  I knew this because I had a solid prayer life.   As the days grew closer for him to leave, I began to ask God for direction.  I didn’t have a clear understanding right
away.  It took some time before it all came clear to me.  It wasn’t until I activated my faith and truly leaned on God for EVERYTHING, that I was able to hear God.   (Revelation 2:17) He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the hidden manna, and will give him a white stone, and in the stone a new name written, which no man knoweth saving he that receiveth it.  (Revelation 2:17)   This was a faith move for me.  I had to go from partially leaning and depending on another individual for 10years to totally depending on God for everything.  There were a lot of days where I would ask God, “What happened?”  “Did I miss you?”  “Did I do something wrong?”  “Did I make you angry?”  It wasn’t until I began to go to God in prayer that I really got an answer.  The answer wasn’t a direct answer about my marriage, but it was a direct answer about my life.  I say that to say this.  There are times in your life when you will be at the end of your rope.  You will feel like you have no more options, but when you take it to the Lord in prayer, he shows up.  Prayer is our communication with God.  This is how we get instructions from him.  If we never spend time with God, how will we know what he is trying to communicate .  Prayer is where you can leave everything at his feet.  The word lets us know in (Romans 8:26) In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. This reminds us that even when we don’t have any words for God, he understands.  When the situation hurts to the point that you cannot pray, God understands. So when you have no words and you don’t think that your prayers are being heard, let the spirit make intercession for you and watch God Hear and answer your prayers.  Whatever you do, don’t stop praying!      
Be Blessed. 

    In His Service and Yours

    Deb Merriweather


Saturday, February 7, 2015

Attention All (divorce) Attorneys ……


A word to those who counsel or assist people in ending their marriages ……Specifically, I would like to address those that provide legal counsel...divorce attorneys. Aside from viewing clients seeking divorce as simply a means of livelihood (a paycheck), I believe some attorneys think they are helping and may even go so far as to think their hands are clean, whether the intentions are to help or not.  They may even identify their faith as “Christian” and believe divorce is completely acceptable, particularly given the existence of certain situations. But scripture tells us in Mark 10:7-9;

This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.  Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.

Whoa….. now wait a minute, who has made the couple one?  Not a pastor or a matchmaker or even the couple themselves, but God!  That should make everyone stop in their tracks!  Where is the reverential fear for God today? We could all stand to have the fear of God.  There are many blessings to be gained from it (do a personal study on the topic of the fear of God).  Furthermore, what power or authority does any man have to dissolve what GOD has joined together?

Why would any attorney attempt to assist one or both spouses in destroying what GOD has joined together?  Where is the peace in doing such a thing?  This statement really goes for anybody ……mother/father, sister/brother, best friend, neighbor, co-worker, lover, etc …… but the focus here is legal counsel. Unfortunately, the involvement of legal counsel is often where a worse situation tends to pick up speed and become even more worse (not correct grammar, I know, but added for emphasis). 

Attorneys are often given the privilege of being one of the first voices of reason outside of the client’s circle of influence.  That voice could say, “No, you really don’t want to do this, I strongly urge you to reconsider and seek the path of reconciliation with your spouse instead. I will not represent you for the purposes of championing divorce.” …..Vs….. “Well, let’s get this paperwork started so that you can be “free” and “happy” again.  You’re situation is terrible and I’m going to get you the justice you deserve by skillfully navigating you through the process of divorce.  Since you clearly don’t love them (or they don’t love you anymore), let’s begin.”  The first statement might sound far-fetched but there are many spouses who would have appreciated the attorney who met their spouse with such words of opposition.
Instead two questions should be addressed. Is this the potential client's first marriage and also their spouse's first marriage? If there are no other living spouses we should re-think this petition for divorce. This marriage qualifies as a holy covenant marriage, which God says is not to be broken.

Do not be quick to get caught up in the whirlwind of circumstances you may hear.  Become familiar with Proverbs 18:17;

The first to plead his case seems right, until another comes and examines him.

And I would admonish you not to represent anyone just because you figure if you don’t someone else will.  We should never let greed or fear dictate our choices.

For those who do not count themselves believers or followers of Christ, nonetheless, God’s commands apply to everyone even if we choose to ignore them or walk in ignorance.  As for “Christian” attorneys who believe divorce is perfectly normal and acceptable, given certain situations, I would like to remind you of Proverbs 3:7;

Don’t be impressed with your own wisdom. Instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil.

And James 5:19;

My dear brothers and sisters, if someone among you wanders away from the truth and is brought back, you can be sure that whoever brings the sinner back will save that person from death and bring about the forgiveness of many sins.

Never cast off godly integrity for the world’s system.  Now, the law has its place and we do have to operate within its system to an extent.  But allow your faith in Christ to influence every aspect of your life including how you conduct yourself even in professional matters.  Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good (Romans 12:21).  And daily remember not to conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind (Romans 12:2).   

Knowing that divorce is epidemic and many marriages are operating out of selfishness and not selflessness, do not be quick to involve yourself in destroying what God has joined together.  Do not involve yourself in such matters as a primary means to make money, in the end that money will not help you.  It cannot be emphasized enough …. think twice about your involvement and what side you will position yourself on.  Know that the devil is a divider, but God is a restorer.  And if you count yourself a follower of Christ do not simply pull out your Christian card for church attendance.  If you still haven’t been convinced, recall that it is written; Whether, then you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31).  Be an  attorney for the Lord, not for the devil.


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(Yielded to Prayer)

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Verbal Abuse: Love or Leave

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Tuesday, February 3, 2015


AVOID NAYSAYERS. Don't allow anyone to speak negatively about your marriage. NAYSAYERS speak with no wisdom at all. When people say what they "won't do" and how they "will do" when they are not in that situation have proven just the opposite. We are taught that SHUT UP is a strong word, but for me it is the APPROPRIATE WORD for NAYSAYERS.

Monday, February 2, 2015

February 2015

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Today in our Monday Manna circle I want to take your faith to another level.  The word of God says Now faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. (Hebrews 11:1)  Faith is something that is not visible.  You can't see faith, you just know it will happen.  The word of God also lets us know that the Lord gives each of us a measure of faith. (Romans 12:3) This tells us that each of us have faith no matter what level it is.  Some of us have mustard seed faith and some have the gift of faith.  No matter where your faith is on today, it always has room to grow.  I can remember a time in my life when I was unemployed.  I was praying for a job and I told the Lord whatever agency that picks me up, that is the agency that I will go with. I was filling out at least 25 applications a day.   When I got the call that I had a job, the job was 6 hours from where I was living at the time.  I told God, "If you give me the position, you will make every provision for me when I get there."  I came to my new city with $75.00.  I didn't know where I was going to stay,  I didn't know the area.  I didn't have any family or friends there.  I drove down a day before I had to start work and I went to a hotel to stay the night.  The hotel was $45.00 for the night. I was left with $30.00 for the next 2 weeks until I got my first paycheck.   I stayed the night and I said, "Lord, it's me and you."  I went to work the next day.  I did not know where I was going to stay for the rest of the week.  I made some calls to the VA hospital and they gave me a list of places and charities to call.  I called this catholic charity and they said they would pay for one week for me to rent a room.  I said thank you Jesus.  Every day I was there I trusted God for my next provision.  The first weekend  I was there, I went to see a place.  The lady said I will work with you.  You can move in next week. When I moved to my new town I had a car that was 17 yrs old.  The car broke down in the middle of the road after the first -6 degree weather.  The next day the Lord blessed me with a new car.  Everything that I needed was there because That was my SET place.  As believers we have to have faith.  Without it, it is impossible to please God.  I admonish you on today, if you lack faith, ask the Father to activate it for you.  Faith is like anything else.  You have to use it for it to work.  Work your faith on this week and watch the Lord Exceed your expectations. 

In His Service and Yours,

Deb Merriweather

Sunday, February 1, 2015

By Andrea S. Hamilton, M.S., B.S., A.B.
A freelance writer, sharing spiritual insights straight from the Bible, for your consideration
Subject:  Laying the Foundation
Scripture Basis:  Genesis 2:22-24 (KJV)
And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made him a woman, and brought her unto the man.   And Adam said, this is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.  Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
When a man and a woman join together in marriage as husband and wife, they become one flesh.  This practice that we now witness in the lives of our many families and friends, finds it origin in Genesis 2:22-24.  After God created the earth and all that is within, He said it was good (Gen. 1). He placed the highest form of his creation in a life-sustaining place, called the Garden of Eden.  And, it was there in that garden that God gave the man and the woman their first blessing and a command, which was to “be fruitful and multiply”.  Now, we have the beginning of a society, with a man and a woman, as husband and wife, ready and willing to follow the command to procreate as a means of populating the earth.  God is so omniscient (all wise, all knowing) and awesome, because when he created man (the giver) He knew He would need a woman (receiver) to fulfill His command to be fruitful and multiply.

 In order for an electrical appliance to work, the attached cord will have a plug with prongs of some sort on the end. It must then be inserted into an outlet [flat opening with deep insides].Unless the right connection is made the electrical appliance is useless).
Just like man is different from the woman, so is the plug different from the outlet. If two of the same (plugs) are joined together nothing can be produced.  But, when things are rightly joined together, electricity and sparks ignite! In the case of man and woman, when they are joined together, an offspring is produced. Wow!  Now, how awesome is that!  
Since God called everything He created good, then, it is safe for me to say that man was good, woman was good and marriage was good!  And it was, until sin reared its ugly head!  Even though the Bible does not detail the married life of the first man and woman, we can only imagine that they had many ups and down.  But, guess what?  They lived for over 900 years! And, the Bible does not record them getting a divorce!  Talking about through thick and thin, or as some may say “for better or worse”!
Until next time…
Be Blessed!



Saturday, January 31, 2015

Abandoning the Wedding Vows

It is sad to see all of the brokeness in marriages today. The lack of respect for God's creation of marriage is spreading too fast. The world has too many false ideas of the saying "the grass is always greener on the other side" refers to those viewing abandoning the wedding vows and the "d" word as the thing to do. Why is throwing in the towel the only option? Ecclesiastes 9:11 says: "The race is not given to the swift nor the strong, but the one who endures until the end. God tells us clearly NOT to go by what we SEE, but by faith. Change the way you look at the circumstances and the issues you are facing in your marriage as opportunities for God to work in your life.
God created us for His purpose to be fulfilled and God has purposed us to have lasting marriages.
Take a STAND against all of the weapons the enemy is trying to use to destroy your marriage.
This means OPEN YOUR MOUTH to Declare and Decree: No Weapon That Forms Against My Covenant Shall Prosper in the Mighty Name of Jesus.
Trust God with your LIFE.
The grass is greener where you water it.
Remembering our Vows
A vow to God is never to be broken.
written by Stephanie Hamilton Brown 1-31-2015

Thursday, January 29, 2015

God honors the one “who keeps his oath even when it hurts”
(Psalm 15:4, NIV)

I'm So Glad God has the FINAL SAY!

Attention Wives:

I'm sure none of us would call ourselves a FOOL, however many of us are displaying actions of just that. We can't allow the enemy to deceive us from our assignment and privilege. Don't be a #weakwife in your marriage. Be the covering for your husband that God has called a wife to be. A praying wife is a powerful thing. Being disregarded or taken for granted is the unwanted thing, but being obedient to God is the perfect thing.

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Abandoning the Wedding Vows
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the "for worse"

 Conflict in marriage is inevitable.
How we deal with conflict is the important issue.

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

God is the healer of ALL things.

I am praying and believing GOD


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Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Marriage is...

1. Created by God.
2. Hated by satan.

Monday, January 26, 2015


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Saturday, January 24, 2015

After the Wedding comes the Marriage

A lot of us marry for
 love, life long commitment, companionship, having children and financial stability.
Too many of us marry without the thought of trouble.
Too many of us are not prepared for
lies, inlaw disputes, weight gain, intimacy level, job loss, credit challenges,
one car, adultery, name calling
and all the what I call "for worse".
Too much preparation goes ino the "WEDDING" day---the fairytale couple of hours.
Too many of us are not prepared to be a WIFE or HUSBAND.
Too many of us marry with the thought of things that he/she will change?
(Note: Don't Marry Potential!)
Too many of us are not SAYING YES TO FOREVER.
The WEDDING DAY is the celebratory event for the covenant MARRIAGE.
I've heard it said like this: "The magic isn't in getting's in staying married".
Focus on having a beautiful marriage in the Lord, not just a beautiful wedding.
written by Stephanie Hamilton Brown 1-24-2015


Thursday, January 22, 2015


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Not easy to do...

the first year of marriage is TOUGH!


new husband,
 new name,
 new driver’s license,
 new bank account,
 new Social Security card,
 new address,
new phone number,
new signature,
new title—and that is just the beginning!

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Too many making a
 mockery of marriage.


What can we call the first few months of MARRIAGE...


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Mr. & Mrs. say: “we didn’t really know each other until after we got married".

Tuesday, January 20, 2015


This is such a ploy of the enemy. Never until now has the President of the United States sanctioned same sex couples to name themselves what they never can become.

Saturday, January 17, 2015

apologies...are the words enough?

Apologies without change are useless.
So often, we get caught up in words.
We've been taught since we were "tots" to apologize when we do wrong.
So now as adults we look for apologies to undo mistakes and hurt. 
The "I'm sorry" or "I apologize"may change the situation, but not the problem. 
A "good apology" with a dozen roses in hand (for t...he ladies) and the words: "I'll never do it again" is what I call "Making it Pretty"!
Words have power and are important. 
Facing challenges in life, we can't just look to words. 
What do mistakes need? Mistakes need CORRECTION.
We must move past this place and STOP waiting for apologies. 
We have to seek forgiveness.
An apology is more so done out of habit, but forgiveness is done out of humbleness.
Sorry doesn't get any better.
Fogiveness begins the process of reconciliation.
written by Stephanie Hamilton Brown 1-17-15

Friday, January 16, 2015

Coming Soon on the "CALL"

After the WEDDING comes the MARRIAGE


 (According to a poll from David's Bridal,
more than 20,000 U.S. couples planned to marry on 12/13/14)

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Created by God

The "d" word is death to what God has created to produce life. The "d" word is designed to wreck you emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually. It leaves some totally devastated. God has ordained marriage for MAN and WOMAN...His way is the ONLY way. Hebrews 13:4 let's us know that marriage is honorable to God. Your MARRIAGE should be kept honorable in every way, and the marriage bed undefiled. Don't ALLOW satan to steal, kill or destroy what God honors.
Take a STAND to PRAY and FAST for your MARRIAGE.




Do we "apologize" from HABIT or HUMBLENESS?


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Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Tuesday, January 13, 2015


"I'm sorry" can easily get old after hearing it for every transgression.
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About Us...

Remembering our Vows is for MARRIAGE RESTORATION.
(not separation, the "d" word, or same sex whatchamacallit)

Monday, January 12, 2015